Not that I've been feeling much like it lately...

* My former HS classmate who's son was kidnapped by his mother...Apparently, they found him unharmed in NYC with her the day after I posted. According to the paper, she was arrested and he was returned to his father/my old classmate.  I'm assuming that all is well, within reason, although I have serious issue with what sort of person would put their child through a trauma like that.  *suppresses rant*  But I'm glad he was found unharmed and I hope he's given the help that he needs to get through this drama in his life.

* My friend's BIL/another classmate of mine... who is dying of stomach apparently in hospice at his house and has either weeks/maybe months left to live.


Seriously, he's a good guy.  This totally brings me back to when I lost Kathlyn (it was the same week that Tiger Woods won his first Open or whatever ...  [the one where they win the green blazer that's like the "top o' the top' in golf in the US  .I forget the actual name for that tournament;] the girl in New Jersey gave birth AT THE PROM to a baby she then stuffed in a trash can and went back to dancing or whatever and the couple from U of DE went on trial for stuffing their newborn son in a dumpster after giving birth to him in a motel room) and all I wanted to do was give my baby a chance at life (that was practically non-existent) and it seemed like everyone was throwing their babies in the garbage. 

WHY is he dying at 37/38 when he's a GOOD MAN, a TEACHER and lacrosse coach and a productive member of society, who loves his wife and children, pays his taxes and just wants to EXIST, while scum bags who don't give a shit about nuthin are left to roam the earth and fuck other people up.


I am really having a hard time reconciling this, so I maybe quiet for awhile to process...

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If you need someone to talk to, I'm right here. *hugs very, very close*

B xxx

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*hugs you tight*

I'm so, so, so sorry sweetie. It IS just so unfair. There are so many Why Why WHY!? questions that I'd like to have answered too.

I'll be praying for you and for your friend and his family.

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*hugs you tight as well*

Thank you for commenting; I know you're having a much worse time right now than I am.

You and your beautiful son and family are constantly in my thoughts and prayers.


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I hate hearing this. I don't understand it either. I wish I could offer words of wisdom, but they fail me.

I do hate that you're suffering and will send you happy, happy, lovely, positive thoughts.


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Thank you sweetie. I'm not really suffering, mostly feeling sorry for myself and mad at the world for the unfairness of it all.


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I'm so sorry!! **huge squishy hugs and much ♥**